THE UNBOUND tm
A private, ongoing mastermind with Quentin Decamp
You See The Relationship Patterns.
You Still Can’t Stop It.
Most people have never been in a real relationship with a partner; they have been in a
relationship with their subconscious limitations. And so many people could strive in their
lives if they could finally dissolve what is really holding them back.
“Working with Quentin was phenomenal… I gained a new understanding of myself and immediately felt lighter from the very first session. He takes his time and really educates you on what is happening and how to move forward powerfully. Prior to working with him, my partner and I were on the verge of DIVORCE and thank to Quentin we are still in the game committed to healing and repairing and moving forward with grace.”
MICHELLE
I can hear what’s on your heart.
You have done the work, you are taking responsibility, but the patterns still don’t care how much work you have done. And your mind becomes your worst enemy.
THE PATTERN
THE VOICE IN YOUR HEAD
You keep selecting the same type of people
What’s wrong with them, what’s wrong
with me?
You can’t end the cycle of conflicts with
your partner
Are relationships supposed to be this hard?
You fall for the same level of reactivity
Why do I sabotage what is good for me?
You feel connected for a moment but something pulls you back in where
you have always been
It’s so hard
You see your friends getting married
and building a family
Why is it easy for them?
You lose hope
No one wants to commit anymore
Sharing your concerns is not helping
Everyone tells me the right person will come… and still nothing?
You fall for resignation
I am that close to being done with relationships altogether, maybe it is just not for me.
You’re either asking… Where is my conscious partner? Or why can’t my partner and I build
the connected, deepening, loving relationship I want?
Before you go any further, there is something you need to know…
The average relationship of couples who aren’t doing the work either ends within 3 years or stays unfulfilled for decades. Divorce keeps rising, people stay single, struggle to relate, and entitlement vs avoidance have never been more common. And while many used to stay too long in hurtful relationships, today people often leave the moment a relationship becomes uncomfortable.
And yet, I believe it has never been easier to stand out and build a healthy relationship.
(I know you may be thinking I have lost the plot, but keep reading…)
Most people try to find the right answers by asking the wrong question.
It’s not
Where is the right one for me or why is
everyone else unavailable?
It’s
What is in the way of me being the
version of myself who can attract
the partner I want and create a
lasting relationship with?
Because we don’t simply choose partners.
We choose from what remains unresolved within us.
And until that changes, the pattern not only repeats. It solidifies.
You date the same type. Hope goes down. Frustration goes up.
Or you already are in a relationship, and your limiting patterns slowly turn companionship into conflict.
I don’t believe healthy, conscious relationships are becoming impossible.
I believe they are rarer, for NOW, and therefore more valuable.
I know because I had to confront everything within me that prevented me from creating one.
Betrayal. Narcissistic abuse. Cheating. Manipulation. Abandonment. Codependency. Shame. Control. Disorganised attachment. Poor boundaries. Endless conflict. The inability to speak my truth.
I stayed attached to dynamics that were destroying me.
I pushed away people who were good for me.
Name a toxic cycle. I’ve lived it.
Name a human constraint.
I’ve gone through it.
Not so I could become perfect.
So I could become free.
“It is very different from the work I have done before in the way you uncover the prisons that are preventing whatever it is your highest self wants. Quentin has profound wisdom and is able to articulate what is going on in a way that makes sense. While a lot of heavy and deep work is happening, there is also relief and joy in the moments where you truly understand and are validated in that experience. Also, because the sessions are long and in-depth you really take the time beforehand with the questionnaire to learn and know what is going on so that time isn’t wasted during sessions with explaining and going over history. This allows for quick change and working through patterns and prisons quickly and efficiently, making it the most effective way I’ve learned and grown, by far.”
BRIANA
While failing at relationships continuously,
I went deep into the human psyche, beyond traditional approaches.
I kept looking for what was still limiting me until I finally resolved enough of what I was carrying to
become someone who could choose a healthy partner, build a relationship that lasts, and help
others do the same.
I discovered that many of my wounds were actually the wounds most women carry, on top of the
universal woundings that limit men. The amount of limitations I have had to heal from helped me
see the invisible, subconscious vibrational forces shaping human conditionings.
I was not only seeing the obvious patterns, I could see the entire
architecture beneath the surface driving them.
It’s beyond normal awareness, when healing stops being information and becomes INSIGHT that cracks your limitations open and allows you deep cathartic, somatic experience.
You stop repeating what you finally understand, feel, resolve and transcend. You dissolve the patterns and identities you created to survive, and reconnect with who you were before the world told you who you should be.
Did I wait until I was perfectly healed before entering a relationship?
No.
My partner and exes revealed parts of me I could never have seen on my own.
That’s the mirror. That’s the gift.
And oh my… mirrors can be annoying.
If there is healing you must do on your own. There is also healing that can only happen because of the reflection your partner is offering to you.
You don’t need to rebuild the entire relationship with yourself first to be in a relationship with someone else.
You just have to be healed enough to recognise what is good for you, stop tolerating what is not, stay yourself
while deeply connected, communicate clearly, and have boundaries and consequences.
I went through hell and back,
and I have never stopped improving the method I created.
My relationship is not perfect. But it is the healthiest, most conscious and connected
relationship I have ever experienced.
I finally understood that you do not need to be perfectly healed. You need to be healed
enough to stop creating from your wounds.
And when your partner’s messages go from:
“I don’t know if this relationship is
right for me anymore.”
“I’m glad we got through this. I love you and the life we’re creating.”
You realise the deep work was worth it.
I was given a new life. And this is why I want to give it to others.
“This mentorship changed my life in every way I can think of! I found the truth behind my deepest struggles which is in itself life altering. As you have stated, you cannot ‘unsee’ something once you see it and thus, I cannot hide from the truth anymore. It’s wonderful because the truth isn’t scary, it’s liberating and even humorous at times. Like it was really THAT that caused all of THIS? All masks do indeed drop and that really changes you. This work gave me the most healing in 6 sessions than from a decade of traditional work. I felt more healing in hearing mere sentences than countless years in therapy offices. I have never had someone read about my entire life and map all the pieces together and missing links and make sense of everything. I recommend this work because it shows you how beautiful life can truly be. Life beyond your prisons feels like a miracle and everyone deserves this.”
MORGAN
My intention as a coach has not changed. I remember asking life to bring to me the most efficient,
heart-connected knowledge & healing modalities that are existing on this planet so I would be able to evolve & build my own method (amongst the 1537 prayers to help me with my existential crisis ;D).
Since, I have gone on to help 600+ 1-1 clients break free from their deepest limitations so they can experience a life of freedom and build the healthy relationship they want.
I am sure you have already become very aware, doing your own work, I really hope this is the case. You’ve done work on yourself. But some things are still missing for a complete shift, you can feel it, and you don’t want to spend another year figuring out why. If this is you, you are the exact person I have created this container for.
“Quick fixes & surface-level solutions
don’t dissolve most important underlying issues.”
THE UNBOUND tm
is a private, ongoing mastermind designed for people
who’ve already invested in themselves but still can’t seem
to build a healthy relationship, break free from their
sabotage + patterns or select a healthy partner.
You are aware, probably more than everyone around you. You understand your wounds, you
have studied your attachment style, and you had a blast doing a few retreats. But somewhere
between information and embodiment, the needle still hasn’t moved.
This is for the ones who seek the real, authentic depth of themselves and are ready to
collapse anything in the way.
People working with me have had many different breakthroughs, here is a sum up of what you can experience with this work:
Reach the blind spots of your entire subconscious structure that has not been dissolved within yourself, causing you to repeat stubborn patterns.
Remove the core limitations that make you feel you can’t be loved or don’t deserve someone who cares about you.
Build the highest level of discernment so you don’t fall for love-bombing, DARVO and manipulative tactics.
End your self-abandonment so that you finally stop losing yourself in a relationship.
Select a partner who matches the frequency of healing you’ve reached, not your old subconscious survival blueprint.
Complete your individuation process so you stop choosing immature people.
End any sabotage so you don’t push a great partner away.
Individuated: no longer emotionally fused with a parent within or a past conditionings you have inherited that is burdening you.
Free from the grip of the mother wound or the father wound.
Collapse attachment styles.
Become able to recognise and dissolve their own patterns in real time.
Dating from values and self-worth, not from fear, loneliness, or conditioning.
Selecting partners based on alignment, not familiarity or chemistry alone.
Communicating with clarity, honesty, and emotional maturity.
No longer collapsing, over-explaining, or shutting down in conflict.
Quantum shift to attract relationships that are conscious, mutual, and growth-oriented.
Reconnected to their authentic self, beneath the false self and the masks.
Experiencing real freedom, not just understanding why they were stuck.
This group is made to help you break free from your deepest limitations so that you can build the healthy relationship you want and finally stop the cycle of toxic cycles, breakups, endless hoping and unsuccessful dating.
For a conscious, lasting relationship, you only need to meet TWO people: Your Self beyond your limitations, and a partner who is a reflection of that.
What’s Included with THE UNBOUNDTM
DIRECT ACCESS
Direct access to me between sessions via WhatsApp.
My feedback and support on your triggers, patterns, and real life moments as they happen.
You’re not alone in the hard parts; and, the container holds you accountable.
Wisdom will say I am nothing
Love will say I am everything
And between the two my life passes
SRI NISARGADATTA MAHARAJ
… And between the two your life passes, but it does not have to be without a healthy companion in a healthy container.
THE SESSIONS
Live group sessions.
All recorded and yours to keep and rewatch as many times as you need.
THE COMMUNITY
Private WhatsApp group for daily integration (except Sundays).
Real-time support in the moments where old patterns want to take over.
Peer accountability and witnessing from a capped group of 10.
THE PRE-RECORDED MATERIALS
4+ hours of relationship fundamentals training.
EBOOK: How to Stop Selecting Unavailable Partners.
YEBOOK: The Wounded Ego.
Pre-work questionnaire to anchor your starting point.
THE CONTAINER
Capped at 10 people.
Ongoing with 3-month minimum commitment; jump in and out after that anytime you want.
Spots fill fast
I only take 10 people. Once it is full, there will be a wait list.
The next level of your healing journey is there
The sooner you start rewiring, the sooner you can actually recognize and choose differently.
Waiting another 6 months means 6 more months of attracting or entertaining the same dynamic.
Your ego is not your best amigo
Right now you feel the pain enough to change. That motivation can fade. In a couple weeks, you’ll rationalise staying in the pattern. In a couple months, you’ll convince yourself it’s fine. Until life forces you to face what you may be trying to avoid, again.
The sooner you start, the sooner the daily WhatsApp integration begins rewiring your nervous system in real time. Every day you wait is a day that old pattern stays unchallenged.
The next triggering moment is coming
You’ll get triggered again. The old dynamic will try to come back again. Alone, it’s challenging, but inside a container with me and 9 other people supporting you through it, you can find the answer you need to shift rapidly.
Frequently Asked Questions
How is this different from therapy?
Therapy can help you understand your history, process certain experiences, and develop a level of emotional awareness. My work looks at the entire architecture of your mind and your experience, the conscious, unconscious (soul), subconscious (ego), body and nervous system, and how all of these interact.
We look at the original experiences, the meanings you gave them, the wounds that formed, the subconscious beliefs and programs that developed from them, the protective strategies you created, the emotional attachments, the parts of yourself that became exiled, and ultimately the behaviours and relationship patterns that continue to run your life. Because understanding where a pattern came from is not necessarily the same as being free from it.
My work is about identifying and dismantling what is actually keeping you from living as your fullest authentic expression.
Can I actually change my patterns in a few months?
Yes. Absolutely.
When you understand what is actually creating the pattern and begin addressing it at the deepest level where it exists, you can create changes that would otherwise take years of repeating the same cycles.
The goal isn’t to spend years becoming better at managing the same pattern. The goal is to remove what is creating the pattern in the first place.
What if I’m the only one in the group who’s struggling?
You won’t be treated as if you have to keep up with everyone else. Everyone comes into this work with a different history, different patterns and different constraints.
You are not required to be at the same place as anyone else in order for this work to work for you.
And because I am working with the individual underneath the pattern, I can meet you where you are and help you work with what is actually happening for you.
Will you push me to date or get into a relationship?
No. The goal isn’t simply to get you into a relationship. The goal is for you to become someone who can consciously choose the relationship you actually want, rather than unconsciously recreating what is familiar. If you’re not ready to date, you don’t need to date. And if being single is currently the most authentic choice for you, that is something we can work with too.
What if I get triggered during the group and can’t handle it?
You don’t have to handle everything alone.
If something comes up during the group that you are struggling with, you can reach out to me 1-1 through WhatsApp and I will help you work through whatever you need to get through.
The point isn’t to force yourself through something. The point is to learn how to meet what comes up without continuing to be governed by it.
Is this only for people who want to date consciously?
No. This work is for single people, people already in relationships, people going through a breakup, people going through or recovering from divorce, and people healing from toxic relationship dynamics.
It’s about changing the patterns that negatively affect how you relate to yourself, others and life. Selecting a great partner comes first with you being great at being authentically you.
Can I catch up if I miss a session?
Yes. Every session is recorded and made available for you to rewatch, so you can catch up whenever you need to.
What if I’m further along than everyone else, or way behind?
Everyone comes with their own set of constraints. There is no universal timeline for this work. I meet people where they are and adapt to each person’s needs rather than expecting everyone to follow the exact same process at the exact same pace. You don’t need to be at a particular level of healing to be here.
What if I realise halfway through that this isn’t for me?
You can jump in and out after the first 3 months. I don’t want you staying because you feel trapped in a commitment. I want you staying because you are experiencing the value of the work and choosing to continue, because it does not only help you with your relationships, it helps you in your entire life.
What if my issue is deeper than you can help with?
I am confident in my ability to work with a very wide range of human patterns and experiences. A large part of what I teach comes from having had to dismantle more than 30 different human constructs in myself: patterns, wounds, false identities, prisons and subconscious mechanisms that were running my own life. That doesn’t mean I claim to be the right person for absolutely every circumstance. But if what you’re struggling with is a pattern in any form of relationships you have, your identity, your emotions, your behaviours or the way you experience yourself and others, this is exactly the territory I work in.
Is this about healing the past or building the future?
Both. You cannot fully build a different future while the past is still unconsciously determining your choices. So we work on removing what is in the way of you becoming your fullest authentic expression, while also creating the capacity to meet a matching partner and build a healthy, conscious relationship. It’s about understanding what needs to be resolved so you can finally move forward differently.
How does the WhatsApp daily support actually integrate into my life?
You can use WhatsApp to ask me questions related to your relationships and what you’re experiencing between sessions. Something happens with someone you’re dating. You notice a pattern coming up. You don’t understand why you’re reacting the way you are. You’re unsure how to communicate something. You can bring it to me. This means the work isn’t confined to the hours we spend together in the group. You are able to bring the real-life situations where the patterns are actually happening into the work, while they’re happening.
The patterns are clear.
And the cost is real.
But most people are trying to be right about their limitations rather than be free from them. In six months, you could still find yourself stuck or be in a very different place. In one month’s time, you could be in a room with nine other people who get it, who just like you, want more depth, more consciousness and want to be free from
their deepest limitations, rewiring their nervous system in real time, and finally showing up as the authentic nature that they are, who has no other choice but to bring better for their own life.
Only 10 people and I already have 5 spots taken.
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